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Your First Healthy Year of Retirement — An older retiree moving along a twelve-month circular path with symbols for movement, meals, sleep, medical care, friendship, and purpose.
Book 28 of the series

Your First Healthy Year of Retirement

A Twelve-Month Plan for Movement, Food, Sleep, Medical Care, Purpose, and Connection

Your health in retirement runs on the shape of your week, and you are now the only person who can build it.

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What it is for

For people newly retired, or about to be, who want the first year to build something rather than drift.

What it will not do

It is not a medical plan, a screening calendar, or a source of treatment advice, and it does not address the financial side of retirement.

What this guide is about

For decades your alarm went off because of a shift or a train. You ate at roughly consistent times because breaks were scheduled. You moved without ever calling it exercise, walking to the bus, standing at a counter, doing rounds. You talked to people you had not chosen, which sounds like a burden right up until it stops. Then one Friday it ends and all of it goes at once. The first fortnight is lovely. Somewhere between the third week and the third month, for most people, it thins into something flatter.

This is a twelve-month plan for building the week back on your terms. Month one is honest noticing. Two and three build a weekly rhythm. Four and five turn to strength and stamina, in partnership with someone qualified. Six looks at food, which changes more than people expect once the workday stops giving it structure. Seven and eight take on sleep and the stresses that arrive after retirement rather than before it. Nine is about people and about purpose treated as a practice. Ten and eleven deal with travel, illness, and the family crisis that undoes every good routine. Twelve reviews the year, and two further chapters cover appointments and designing the second year.

About 25,000 words, with chapter illustrations, a 30-day plan to get started, a weekly rhythm planner, a one-page health sheet, an appointments tracker, ready-made scripts, a re-entry plan for after a disruption, a support circle worksheet, a quick-reference card, a glossary, and plain-language sources. Nothing here needs a gym membership.

This book is about habits and routine. It sets no screening schedules and recommends no prescriptions. Check with a clinician before starting new activity.

Inside the book

Every chapter, with the sentence it opens on.

The chapters

  1. Month One: Establish the BaselineThe temptation in week one is enormous, and it usually arrives on a Sunday evening.
  2. Months Two and Three: Build the WeekThe strangest thing about a completely free day is how quickly it fills with nothing.
  3. Months Four and Five: Strength and EnduranceA woman we spoke with described the moment she started taking strength seriously.
  4. Month Six: Food and Weight ReviewSix months in, the fridge tells the truth about retirement faster than any notebook.
  5. Months Seven and Eight: Sleep and StressAt ten past three in the morning, the mind produces its worst work, and presents it with total confidence.
  6. Month Nine: Relationships and PurposeWarren Duffy could tell you the exact moment retirement stopped being a holiday.
  7. Months Ten and Eleven: Travel and DisruptionEvery good plan in this book has a natural enemy, and it isn't laziness.
  8. Month Twelve: Review and RenewHazel Brightwater sat down at her kitchen table in Wellington with a mug of tea, a pencil, and the notebook she'd started twelve months earlier, and had a mildly annoying afternoon.
  9. Preventive Care and the Appointments CalendarAlan Fitzgibbon had not seen a doctor in eleven years, and he was rather proud of it.
  10. Design the Second Healthy YearCorinne Adeyemi delivered mail in Milwaukee for twenty-six years, which meant she had never in her adult life needed to think about exercise.

And at the back

  • When It Feels Hard: Troubleshooting the Real Barriers
  • Common Myths, Gently Corrected
  • Your 30-Day Plan
  • Worksheets, Scripts, and Reusable Frames
  • Quick-Reference Card
  • A Small Glossary
  • Sources and Further Reading
  • A Closing Word
  • About the Series
  • About the Author

The thirty days

Thirty small things, one a day, each doable in well under half an hour and most in five minutes. This is not the twelve-month plan compressed; it's the set of first moves that make the twelve-month plan possible. Skip freely. Reorder to suit. If you miss four days, pick up where you left off rather than starting again. Nobody is keeping score, and there is no version of this where falling behind matters.

  1. Get a notebook and put it somewhere you can't avoid it. Write tonight's five lines: when you woke and how the night went, what your body did, roughly what and when you ate, who you spoke to, and one word for the day.
  2. Write the function list. Getting off the floor, the low chair, the steps, the shopping, the top shelf, how far you walk before you'd rather sit. Date the page.
  3. Phone your doctor's surgery and ask for a general check-in, saying you've recently retired and want to review what you're due for. Booking it is the whole task.
  4. Write down the fixed points your week already has, the ones that happen whether or not you decide. Most people have more than they think.
  5. Go outside within an hour or so of getting up, and stay out for a few minutes. Notice whether it changes anything about the day.
  6. Choose your rising hour: one time you'll aim for most mornings, including after a bad night. Write it on the calendar where you'll see it.
  7. Read the week's notebook entries in one sitting. Circle the days that felt good and look at what was in them.
  8. Pick one movement anchor and give it a day and a time. Write it in the calendar in pen.
  9. Ask one person to do it with you, or find the class or group that already does it at that time. Send the message today.
  10. Break one long stretch of sitting on purpose: get up during the adverts, take the call standing, make two trips instead of one.
  11. Write the meal card. Every meal you can currently make without looking anything up. Stick it inside a cupboard door.
  12. Turn the card into a standing shopping list, the one you'll use most weeks without thinking.
  13. Stock the nothing-in-the-house shelf: a few tins, some frozen vegetables, eggs, oats, whatever you'd want on a bad evening.
  14. Cook double at one meal and put the second portion in the fridge or freezer with the date on it.
  15. Write three columns of names: people you'd like to see weekly, monthly, and people you'd hate to lose touch with. Notice the shape of the lists.
  16. Contact one person from the third column. A call, a note, a message. Nothing elaborate.
  17. Find out what actually exists near you. Pick up the library or community center timetable, or look up the council's list of groups.
  18. Turn up once at something new, and go with the deliberate intention of not judging it until the third visit.
  19. Eat one meal at a table, with the television off, and with someone if you can arrange it.
  20. Make the one-page health sheet: conditions, medications, allergies, surgeries, doctor, emergency contact.
  21. Put a copy in your wallet, leave one at home where it would be found, and tell your emergency contact it exists.
  22. List your appointment categories: doctor, dentist, eyes, hearing, any specialist, medication review, and a blank line for screenings to be agreed with your doctor.
  23. Name your health month. Pick one month a year, hitched to something memorable, and write it on next year's calendar too.
  24. Copy the three appointment questions onto a card for your wallet: what is my main problem, what do I need to do, and why is it important that I do this.
  25. Hold a worry appointment. Twenty minutes, a pen, and each worry written as an actual question rather than as dread.
  26. Take one item from that list and write the single next step, with a date. Then do nothing else about it today.
  27. If money is the worry that wakes you, book or research one conversation with a qualified adviser, and write down the specific question you want answered.
  28. Have the time-and-space conversation with your partner, using the script in the worksheets. If you live alone, have a different conversation: agree with one person that you'll check in with each other weekly.
  29. Try one evening without alcohol, if it's part of your routine, and note how you sleep that night. One night is data, not a commitment.
  30. Write your one-page year: the anchors you're keeping, the one thing you're adding, your minimum week, your health month, and a line about what all this is for. Then put a check-in date six months out on the calendar.

Pages from this book

Real pages, at the size they print. In the paperback these are black and white; the cover keeps its colour.

An older adult arranging a weekly life around purpose, relationships, health, learning, and rest after leaving a formal work role.
An older adult arranging a weekly life around purpose, relationships, health, learning, and rest after leaving a formal work role.
A calm thirty-day progression as four weekly clusters and two review days, simple shapes, no readable text.
A calm thirty-day progression as four weekly clusters and two review days, simple shapes, no readable text.
Concentric support rings — self, trusted people, community, professionals — shown through people and symbols, no words.
Concentric support rings — self, trusted people, community, professionals — shown through people and symbols, no words.
A four-stage decision path shown as visual stations with a calm older adult moving through them, no words.
A four-stage decision path shown as visual stations with a calm older adult moving through them, no words.

Words this book makes plain

Anchor
Used here for anything that happens at a set time, on a set day, with something outside your own willpower holding it in place.
Baseline
An honest record of where you're starting: how you sleep, move, eat, and who you see, written down before you change anything.
Function
What your body can do in ordinary life. Getting off the floor, carrying the shopping, managing the stairs. The measure that matters most at this stage.
Preventive care
Checks, vaccinations, and screenings intended to find or prevent problems before they cause symptoms. Which ones apply to you is an individual decision made with your doctor.
Screening
Testing people without symptoms to look for a condition early. Which screenings suit you depends on your age, sex, history, and country, and there is no schedule that fits everybody.
Medication review
A proper look, usually with a doctor or pharmacist, at everything you take, to check it's all still needed, still working, and not interacting badly.
Registered dietitian
A regulated professional qualified to give individual advice about food, including for medical conditions. Different from a general "nutritionist," whose title is not protected everywhere.
Physiotherapist (physical therapist)
A regulated professional who assesses how you move and designs a program for your particular body, injuries, and conditions.
Exercise professional
A qualified trainer or instructor, ideally one with specific experience of older adults or of your condition, who can teach and progress activity safely.
Sleep apnea
A condition where breathing repeatedly pauses during sleep, often with heavy snoring and daytime exhaustion. Common, under-diagnosed, and treatable.
Minimum viable week
The reduced version of your routine that survives a trip, an illness, or a crisis, and keeps the shape of the habit alive.
Respite
Temporary relief for someone caring for another person. Usually has to be asked for, often earlier than people ask.

The words to use

Copy these out, print them, or keep them in a note on your phone. They are yours to use.

The Weekly Rhythm Planner

Movement anchors (at least two, on different days): ______________________
People anchor (a named person, a fixed time): ______________________
Contribution anchor (somewhere you're expected): ______________________
Rhythm anchor (the thing that makes a day distinct): ______________________
Two lighter days, protected on purpose: ______________________
My week: ______________________________________________

Not a timetable. A frame for four to six anchors, with everything else left deliberately blank.

Write the days across the top of a sheet, and three rows down the side: morning, afternoon, evening. Then fill in only the anchors.

Then write the whole week as one sentence you could say out loud to a friend. If you can't, it's too complicated.

Three checks before you commit to it. Does at least one anchor happen without a particular other person being available? Is each anchor sitting in a part of the day when you actually have energy? And is there a genuinely empty afternoon in there somewhere, because if there isn't, you've built a job.

The Daily Five Lines

Slept: ____________________________________
Moved: ____________________________________
Ate, and when: ____________________________
Spoke to: _________________________________
Word for today: ___________________________

For the two-week watch in month one, and for any fortnight later on when you can't work out why you feel off.

Ninety seconds. No judgments, no scores, no plans. Read the whole fortnight in one sitting at the end and look for patterns rather than faults.

The Function List

Write this today, date it, and do it again in a year. Answer in sentences, not numbers.

  • Getting up from a low chair without using my hands: ______________________
  • Getting down to the floor and back up: ______________________
  • Carrying the shopping in from the car: ______________________
  • The steps or stairs I use most: ______________________
  • How far I can walk comfortably, and what stops me first: ______________________
  • Reaching a high shelf, turning to check a blind spot, putting socks on standing: ______________________
  • Anything I've started avoiding: ______________________

That last line is the one to bring to your doctor.

What Mattered About My Work, and How to Get It Elsewhere

The thing I miss: ____________________
Could come from: ____________________ / ____________________ / ____________________

Do this on paper, slowly, and be honest rather than modest.

Step one. Score each of these from nothing to a great deal, for the job you actually did:

  • Being good at something I'd spent years learning: ______
  • Being needed by someone: ______
  • Being known, having a place, having a title: ______
  • Company and daily conversation: ______
  • Somewhere to be, a shape to the day: ______
  • Solving problems, using my head: ______
  • Physical activity built into the work: ______

Step two. Circle the two you scored highest that you no longer have. Only two. This is the whole exercise.

Step three. For each of the two, write three places that specific thing might come from now. Not activities in general. That thing.

Step four. Pick the one that would be easiest to try within a fortnight, and write the first phone call or email next to it.

Most people find that the answer they'd assumed, a hobby, doesn't address either circled item, which is exactly why the exercise is worth doing before you sign up for anything.

A Script for Talking to a Partner About Time and Space

"We've both got a lot more hours in the house than we used to, and I don't think either of us worked out in advance how that would go. Can we sort out the practical side of it, before it turns into something we're snapping about?"
"What I'd really like is one proper thing we do together every week that we both look forward to, rather than only being in the same house."
"And I think I need a couple of hours to myself a few mornings a week. That's not about you. It's about having something in the day that's mine."
"What would you want more of? And what have you been putting up with that you haven't said?"
Who has which hours alone, and where: ______________________
One thing we do together every week, on purpose: ______________________
One job or territory that's causing friction, and how we're settling it: ______________________
"Let's see how that goes and talk about it again in a month, whether it's working or not."

Use it before you're annoyed. Sit down somewhere neutral, not in the room you're arguing about, and go in this order.

Open with the shared problem, not the complaint.

Say what you want more of, first.

Then say what you want more of on your own, and make it about hours, not about them.

Ask, and then actually stop talking.

Agree three concrete things.

Close with a review date.

Two notes. If your partner is still working, the negotiation is different but no less necessary, and it usually turns on expectations about who now does what at home. And if these conversations reliably turn into rows, a few sessions with a couples counsellor is a practical, unremarkable step, not an admission of failure.

The Minimum Viable Week

Instead of my usual movement: ______________________
Instead of my usual meals: ______________________
Instead of my usual people: ______________________
The one thing I keep no matter what: ______________________
Restart date, written on the calendar: ______________________
Person I've told about the restart date: ______________________

For trips, illness, guests, caregiving, and any fortnight that goes sideways.

The One-Page Health Sheet

Wallet copy, home copy, emergency-contact copy. Update whenever anything changes.

  • Name, date of birth, address
  • Doctor, surgery, phone number
  • Conditions, in plain words, with rough dates
  • All medications, including pharmacy-shelf items and supplements, with doses
  • Allergies and bad reactions
  • Past surgeries and serious illnesses, with years
  • Devices or implants
  • Emergency contact, and anyone authorized to speak for me
  • Any advance decisions, and where they're kept

Three Questions for Any Appointment

What is my main problem?
What do I need to do?
Why is it important that I do this?

If you can't answer all three on the way out, go back and ask. And bring a written list of your own questions, most important first, plus a second person if the appointment matters.

Support Circle Worksheet

Nobody does a first retired year well alone. Fill in at least one name per ring, and leave nothing blank.

  • The person who'd notice (if you didn't turn up on Tuesday): ______________________
  • The everyday company (the walk, the coffee, the phone call): ______________________
  • The one who'd come if it went wrong (illness, a fall, bad news): ______________________
  • The community resource (library, community center, faith group, club, lunch club, volunteer scheme): ______________________
  • The professionals (doctor, dentist, physiotherapist or exercise professional, dietitian, financial adviser, counsellor): ______________________

If a ring is empty, that's this month's project, and it's a more important one than any habit in this book.


Questions worth asking before you buy

Who is Your First Healthy Year of Retirement for?
For people newly retired, or about to be, who want the first year to build something rather than drift.
What does it not do?
It is not a medical plan, a screening calendar, or a source of treatment advice, and it does not address the financial side of retirement.
How long is it?
About 25,600 words across 10 chapters, with 13 full-page illustrations. In paperback that is about 122 pages. The audiobook runs about 2h 41m.
Can I read some of it first?
Yes. The foreword and the whole introduction are on this site, free, with nothing to sign up for.
What languages is it in?
The books exist in five: English, German, Spanish, French and Dutch, each localised properly — its own illustrations with the labels drawn in that language, and its own country's institutions named in the text. This shop can sell you the English and the Spanish today; the other three are finished books waiting on their paperwork.
What does the complete set include?
All thirty guides in print, in one box, and the ebook and the audiobook of every one of them at no extra charge.

Free to read

What is in it, chapter by chapter

All 10 chapters: what each one opens on, the questions it answers, and the one small thing to do when you have finished it. About 25,600 words in the book itself.

Every chapter

Where it sends you next

The book’s own sources, printed here in full.

This book deliberately contains no statistics, no screening schedules, and no exercise or nutrition prescriptions, because those are individual, they vary by country, and they change. What follows are the kinds of organizations worth going to for current, reliable, plain-language information. Check names and web addresses at the time you use them, since these do change.

  • Your own doctor's practice or health service. The most important source in this list, because it's the only one that knows you.
  • National public health services and health departments in your country, which publish current, free guidance on activity, food, vaccination, and preventive care for older adults.
  • National institutes and agencies on aging, which produce plain-language material on exercise, falls, sleep, memory, and healthy eating written specifically for older readers.
  • Major nonprofit health charities for any condition you live with: heart, diabetes, arthritis, cancer, lung, and mental health organizations generally publish free, well-reviewed patient information.
  • Professional bodies for dietitians and physiotherapists, which usually maintain searchable directories of qualified practitioners in your area.
  • Your local library, community center, and council or municipal services, which between them hold the most current list of groups, classes, transport schemes, lunch clubs, and volunteer opportunities near you. This is the least glamorous entry here and often the most useful.
  • National carers' organizations, if you're looking after someone, for information about respite and support you may be entitled to.
  • Reputable free financial guidance services in your country, along with regulated financial advisers, for anything to do with income, pensions, and planning.

A Note on Review

Because this book touches on health, food, physical activity, mood, and money, its guidance has been kept general and durable on purpose, and it is intended for review by a primary-care clinician, a registered dietitian, and a qualified exercise professional before publication. Even so, no book can account for your particular history. Decisions about screening, medication, diet, physical activity, and money belong to you and the qualified people who know your situation. Anything time-sensitive here should be checked against current sources near the time you act on it.


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The particulars

SeriesPractical Guides for Life After 60, book 28 of the series
ImprintThe Greenlight Guides Editorial Team
Length25,600 words, 10 chapters
Extentabout 122 pages (estimated from the manuscript, not a proof)
Size5.5 × 8.5 in (140 × 216 mm)
Illustrations13, full-page illustrations
Listening time2h 41m
ISBN, ebook979-8-90623-741-5
ISBN, audiobook979-8-90623-742-2
ISBN, paperbacknot yet issued
LanguageEnglish (en-US)

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